Guest Post: Brian Eagan
For the last day of Mental Health Month, my husband Brian is sharing his thoughts!
EMDR - Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
I will fully admit that I don't know a lot about EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), but I have seen people talk about it positively and say that it has helped them a lot.
Q&A with Julie Eagan from Yoga for Healing
A few days ago, I share how yoga can be a tool to use for healing, whether for trauma or other mental health concerns. I wanted to talk about it a little more in depth, so today I have a Q&A with Julie Eagan from Yoga for Healing! She teaches at Empowered Spaces in St. Louis, MO on Thursdays at 5pm. You can email her at yogaforhealingstl@gmail.com to sign up for a class or if you have any additional questions.
Joey Vitale
On the hockey podcast Spittin' Chiclets today, Blues color analyst Joey Vitale talked a little bit about his struggle after a concussion. He was on pain meds (and rightfully so per his injury), but he had a really hard time with it and went into a pretty dark place. He eventually quit cold turkey and he talked about how hard it was to get out of that dark place.
Blessing Manifesting
Today I want to give a shout-out to Blessing Manifesting. She posts pictures and articles about self love, self care, body love, as well as tips for dealing with depression and anxiety. She is super positive and encourages you to really know yourself and love the person that you find there.
Everyone can benefit from therapy
We often think of seeing a therapist or counselor as something only for people who have super serious mental health concerns. However, therapy is extremely beneficial for everyone! If you are going through something more acute like a breakup or family issues or relationship problems, therapy can help you process your feelings and equip you to have a positive response to negative situations.
Girl Scouts Mental Health Awareness Patch
The International Bipolar Foundation offers a mental health awareness patch to all scouting organizations including the Girl Scouts, Girl Guides, and others.
Yoga for Healing: Trauma-informed yoga
Everyone does yoga for different reasons - exercise, flexibility, meditation, posture, community, etc. But yoga can also be useful for your mental health, especially if you've experienced trauma or have other mental health concerns.
Out of the Darkness Community Walk
Please join me in attending the Out of the Darkness community walk sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Their goal is to reduce the annual suicide rate 20% by 2025. Money donated to the AFSP goes toward research, advocacy, and support for those affected by suicide.
Mental Health First Aid
I posted about Mental Health First Aid in general during #shawleveryday2019, but today Brian and I were able to attend the course for ourselves. While I did know a lot of things already, I felt that it was very valuable and is a great addition to my toolbox.
Gratitude
When you're having a rough day, it can be easy to stay focused on the negative. It can be easy to get stuck in the cycle of thinking that everything is bad and everything will always be bad. One suggestion that my therapist made, which I know sounds super cheesy, is to keep a gratitude journal.
Mental health day
You can often tell when you're coming down with something. The runny nose is easy enough to deal with, but then you also get congestion, then you start developing a cough. And at some point, you know you need to take some time to rest and heal. So, you take a sick day and watch some Netflix on the couch and then you are able to get back to full speed the next day.
Resilience
Psychological resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or significant sources of stress. It can be seen as the ability to "bounce back" after difficult experiences. Some people are more resilient than others, but it is a skill that takes practice. It is something that you can improve, which can help improve your life overall.
Sunny Blossom Brand
Today I want to give a shoutout to Sunny Blossom Brand, which is a new apparel company designed to spread mental health awareness, fight the stigma, and encourage positive self-growth and love.
Fixation on the negative
A common type of distorted thinking that people experience is the fixation on the negative things that happen. There could be a day full of positive experiences, but if a tiny negative experience happens, our brains can get fixated on it and it washes out all the positive things.
Barriers to mental health care
I know I mention all the time that it's important to get help when/if you need it. But it's not always as simple as that. There are often a number of barriers to getting the help that you need.
5 minute self-care
It has been a really crazy weekend, so I want to make sure everyone is taking time for self-care. It only takes 5 minutes, so if you can watch a YouTube video, you can do self-care.
Parenting a teen with mental health concerns
I am not a parent, so a lot of times I don't feel qualified to talk about parenting concerns. I don't know what you're going through and I don't know what's right for your family. But I do know a lot about mental health in general and I hope that I can provide some resources if you don't know where to start.
Being alone with your thoughts
I had been working on this puzzle in earnest for the last month or so. There's not much to go on for each piece, so it was mostly a brute force effort. I'm not one to listen to music while working, so I was pretty much just along with my own thoughts while I ran through all the possible pieces.
Where should we spend money for mental health?
Mental health is an area, like many others, which does not get a lot of money, whether through grants or government budget or donations. There are a lot of ways to spend that money, but it's critical that it gets spent efficiently. What aspect of mental health spending do you think are the most important and what do you think isn't a good value? Is there an area of spending that I haven't thought of? Let me know!